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Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Jon's Hols

So, back to reality..groan..Oh well, time at least for me to record and reminisce about events over the last 8 days.

Arrived in Gouves fairy late Tuesday evening. Had a comfortable stay at the Gatwick Belmont Hotel on the Monday and a reasonably pleasant flight to Heraklion. It was quite late by the time I arrived at the Klio apartments, and I was hungry and in need of beer, so I literally dropped my bags in my room and headed on out. It was my third time in the resort and my second time at this hotel, so I knew my way around.

I had timed my holiday to provide a week of rest and relaxation after the Swindon half marathon (which proved quite prescient of me - more on that later). At the same time however, I was aware there would always be disadvantages to going away so late in the season.

This became manifest on the first evening - the place appeared to be a ghost town. Most of the bars were dead. The bar where I had previously spent so many happy evenings, run by a friend of mine, Stavros, was closed down. As was the Blue Sky restaurant, on the main strip, where I had enjoyed so many excellent meals. I found somewhere else to eat (also very good) and headed back to the bar at my hotel. Experience has taught me that a big night out on the first night is rarely a success, as the alcohol hits you so much harder after the travelling.

An Englishman, Peter, now ran the bar at the Klio. It transpired there were more brits living in Gouves now, something that doesn't surprise me one iota. Peter told me of his reasons for leaving the UK (I'm sure you can all guess correctly) and his plans for the future. I had kept Stavros' number in case I ever decided to jack it all in here (or if I got made redundant and had nothing to lose) and sell up and move out there.

Whilst I have put such ideas on hold while I attempt to train for a marathon and give my writing a go, I haven't given them up entirely.

The next day I set out to explore a bit more. There was a new bar on the seafront but apart from that the place was much the same. I headed to the Porto restaurant, which was still being run by a German lady, Renate, who remembered me from my last two visits. Sadly I didn't see much more of her as she closed for the winter a couple of days later.

Later on I asked Peter where was good to eat. He suggested, among other places, the Pella restaurant on the seafront. I went in there on the third day, found a table outside and when my waiter arrived, I looked up to see none other than Stavros, who I had mentioned earlier! He had given up the bar and was now on his own, having separated from his wife, and was working quite contentedly at the restaurant.

This made a big difference to the holiday. I ate at the Pella every evening for the rest of the week (as well as at 5pm on the last day before my pick-up). Whilst I actually quite enjoy holidaying alone (ok, I'd prefer it if Scarlett Johansson came with me, but that's just not the hand that life has dealt me, is it??) I really hate eating alone in a busy restaurant. So the fact that Stavros could sit with me, have a chat and share a raki made all the difference.

Another of my old haunts was still open and had some of the old staff: the Blue Sky cafe bar on the beach. As before, I ate breakfast there (usually at about noon) as you can sit at one of the tables on the beach. I also started having a late lunch and early afternoon beers there, as the view was so nice. Oh, and you could look out to sea which was also quite pleasant..

And so after I had settled in the days just kind of melted into one another and followed a similar pattern. I went for a lot of walks - one thing I love about Gouves is the coastline - a mixture of sandy beaches, rocky coves and craggy edges. I always enjoy walking along the rocks and looking into the little pools for little fishes and crabs - I guess it just reminds me of seaside holidays as a little boy, a time when life was so less complicated and stressful.

I tried running a couple of times but it never really came off. I didn't really feel normal until about a week after the race, which shows how hard I pushed myself. I think I can be very proud of my efforts in the Swindon Half Marathon.

As always, a lot of my time was devoted to reading. As Stephen King says, the only way to become a good writer is to "read a lot, write a lot". It's especially important to steep yourself in the genre to which you aspire. My week was lit up especially by reading Lisa Jewell's "Vince & Joy" and Mike Gayle's "Brand New Friend". (I bet I'm one of the few people who can remember the hit song by Lloyd Cole of the same name!).

I'll write more about these two books and their authors later, but suffice it to say I'd recommend them to anyone who is an old romantic at heart. For my money, Mike Gayle is unparalleled in his insight into human emotions and Lisa Jewell's latest offering, like many of her previous ones, is just a masterpiece in story telling. Whilst I fully believe I can write a novel worth publishing, I know I have a lot to do if I ever want to be in the same pantheon as these two fine, fine authors.

Before I knew it, the week was over and the last day was upon me. I told myself not to get upset and try to enjoy it as if it were the first – which I did. I never seem to learn – one week is just too short. A lot of people return to Gouves regularly, for reasons, which should by now be obvious. Stavros told me that one of the people I met on my first visit, Cameron, had been to Gouves no less than three times this season, each time for two weeks!

Maybe I’ll return to Gouves for two weeks next year. Right now I can’t think of a single reason why I shouldn’t.

Sunday, October 16, 2005

The Big One

I remember on New Years' Eve 2004 telling myself 2005 was going to be a great year for me. And so it has proved so far (mostly): England have won the Ashes. Whilst I have not yet got myself published, I have got my writing career off the ground, and am at least writing for an (hopefully!) appreciative audience, and I have made a career change - call centre monkey to marketing. Not bad eh?

But more importantly, I have learnt something this year. I think I have it cracked. I now know how a smoker can give up cigarettes. I know how an alcoholic can give up the demon drink. I know how an addict can give up drugs. I know how Freddie Flintoff can make the most of his talents, take on Australia and come out on top. I also know how someone like me can achieve something he thought was way beyond him - run a half marathon.

The common denominator is this: the person in question has to really, really want to achieve their ambition. Now I'm not saying I'm the same as dear Freddie. Heavens no. He is 10 years younger than me, better looking, bigger, fitter, and stronger, has a beautiful wife and family and is a public hero. Oh and he plays cricket for England.

But in some ways we're not that different. Running a half marathon, at any course, in any circumstances and in any time is no mean feat. Swindon half marathon is universally accepted as one of the toughest courses in the land. Despite a bad night's sleep I managed it in a very respectable 2 hours, 4 minutes and something seconds. Not bad for a first-timer, eh?

Thankfully the weather was almost perfect (dry, not too cold, nor too hot or humid). But the race was still hard going. It was every bit as hilly as people made out. But I had faith in myself, thanks in no small part to Anthony. He has been fantastic - pushing me to my limits, making the occasional jibe about my weight (and rightly so - I have a lot to lose, and I'll be a different person for it. At least he tells me what he thinks rather than looking at my belly and pulling a face like most people do!!) But all the while he has filled me with confidence in my own ability.

And he has been great fun to work with. He is under pressure - his girlfriend is expecting in the New Year - a lovely pressure, but pressure nonetheless and to his enormous credit he has never let it show. I've always admired his sense of perspective - whilst he clearly wants me to achieve the best I can, he still encourages me to have the odd glass of wine and a few beers after a race.

Anyway back to the race. Yes it was hard, bloody hard. After about 8 miles I was running on empty. I had severe stomach pains (possibly because I had burnt off the carbohydrates I had loaded up on the last few days). But I kept thinking about what this means. And so I carried on.

About the 12-mile marker I experienced something I had never experienced before: I felt dizzy and faint. I was scared for the first time ever during a run. So I stopped and walked for a couple of minutes and I was fine. By the time I got to the finish line I was spent. Totally. I'll never know how I did it, but I managed to sprint the last 400 metres to the line.

So why did I put myself through this? Well, for me this should be a turning point. It’s about doing something you don't think you can do. Today it was running a half marathon (on a notoriously hard route, in a storming time). Next up it'll be getting ready for the London marathon and writing my first novel. Anyone want to bet against me?

In the meantime, I have earned a break. So I'm off to one of my favourite places, the peaceful resort of Gouves in Crete. It's lovely there. A short drive from the capital, Heraklion, the beaches are long and sandy, the people are lovely, the food is great and the beer is cold.

It won't be a complete break however. I will take my trainers in case I get restless, and I will be honing my writing craft by enjoying the following great reads:

Andrew Flintoff - Being Freddie
Rising From The Ashes - Graham Thorpe
A Long Way Down - Nick Hornby
Vince and Joy - Lisa Jewell
Brand New Friend - Mike Gayle
The Understudy - David Nicholls

I'll let you know what I think. Right now though, I'm off to my mate Graeme's house (he ran the race today, his third half marathon, and did very, very well considering his lack of training) for a magnificent Sunday roast. I think I've earned it.

About this time last year I went to another part of Greece, the resort of Nidri in Lefkas. I remember texting Graeme to say I felt "physically sick" at the thought of coming home (due mostly to the situation at work and the impending redundancy). This time I'll have a lot to look forward to when I get back: more running, more races, a new job, cracking on with the writing, and spending time with my friends, old and new. What a difference a year makes.

Copyright © Jonathan Weedon October 2005

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Wallace & Gromit - The Curse of the Were-Rabbit

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0312004/

Sorry, not as much of an in-depth review as I would have liked - I am currently working on another piece (to be published shortly) and am my usual disorganised self getting ready for the big day tomorrow and a well-earned break in Crete almost immediately after. God am I looking forward to a large plate of moussaka washed down with a few glasses of cold mythos..

Anyway, I went to see this today after my pre-race massage and felt it my duty to write a few words about it on here. How about these: GO AND SEE IT!!

Seriously, I can't remember the last time I had so much fun at the cinema. Going for the 5.50pm performance, I knew the place would be packed but as it turned out it didn't matter a jot - all the kids (including the 37-year old one writing this) were totally engrossed in the movie. How could they not be? It was fabulous - the animation is a work of genius. Pay attention to the expression on Gromit's face when he turns on the radio and finds the song being played is "Bright Eyes" (you know - from Watership Down??) How do they do that??!!

I've just realised - the irony would have been wasted on the vast majority of people in the cinema who were too young to have seen the film version of Watership Down, or will never read the book anyway. You read it here first - when I'm famous I'm going to start a one-man Jamie Oliver-esque crusade to get kids reading. They don't know what they're missing.

Anyway, the thing I love about these films is the fact that while they are ostensibly for kids, most of the jokes are for the benefit of the adults. "Kiss my ar-tichoke!" "May contain nuts". And in this film, the jokes come thick and fast. So much so, I am sure a repeat viewing or two will be required. The 90 minutes (or whatever it was) flew by. Even the thoughts of the self-imposed torture I am going through tomorrow were pushed out of my mind.

So, just to make myself clear: If you have kids, take them to see it, whatever their age. You should be stripped of parenthood if you don't. If you're a big kid, go and see it. If you think you're not, or it's not your cup of tea, go and see it. If this doesn't put a smile on your face, I don't know what will.

Copyright © Jonathan Weedon, October 2005

Sunday, October 09, 2005

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind - why I love this film

About a year and a bit ago I did a smart thing - something I should have done ages ago. I realised I was spending too much money on home entertainment (DVDs) and so I signed up to UGC's unlimited card, which meant I could go to the flicks any time I wanted, no extra charge. Whilst I have seen a lot of films I would otherwise not have bothered with, there have been a few films that I would have dearly loved to own, and have instead waited patiently for them to come on Sky movies (a luxury I doubt I could live without).

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind probably tops that list, and by a distance. It’s a film I never tire of watching. Why is this I ask myself? Yes it boasts a great cast (Jim Carrey, Kate Winslet, Tom Wilkinson, Kirsten Dunst, Elijah Wood and Mark Ruffalo) but is, to many people, quite confusing. It starts almost at the end, goes back in time, nips back and forth in time, and then ends up where we started. Confused? So was I the first time. And there are some very surreal moments.

So what’s it all about? Well, Joel (Jim Carrey) is devastated when he finds his girlfriend Clementine (Winslet) has had all her memories of him and their relationship expunged from her memory following a break-up. He then decides to undergo the same procedure himself, when he realises he has not been the victim of an elaborate hoax.

Things however, do not go as planned. As the treatment takes place, Joel realises he does not want all his memories of Clementine erased. His subconscious fights the erasing procedure, and tries to hide his memories of her in the deep recesses of his mind. This is where the film gets pretty weird, but is brilliantly done. Buildings are wiped out, books lose their titles, and the two protagonists are reduced to the size of children as the technicians performing the erasure (Wood, Rufflalo) chase them through Joel’s memories.

Finally they succeed, but not before the two lovers agree to “meet me in Montauk”. And so back to the start of the film, whereupon Joel phones in sick at work and gets on a train to Montauk. The two meet and fall in love, all over again.

But there’s a very clever twist. During the erasure, Mary (played superbly by the very alluring Kirsten Dunst) discovers she has had the procedure herself. Her former lover is none other than her boss, Dr. Howard Mierzwiak (Wilkinson) who she has a crush on. She is, needless to say, distraught and in a fit of pique goes to her place of work and sends all the companies clients’ files back to them. Joel and Clementine are awakened to their past and reminded of each other’s failings, and are faced with a dilemma.

So what is it I like about this film so much? Well, I’ve always liked stories that have a powerful message. My favourite film of all time, The Shawshank Redemption, has several, which I’ll go into another time. The message of ESOTSM is about memories, and how you deal with them. We all have painful memories at some point in our life, usually when a loved one passes on or a relationship ends. And I’m sure most of us have wished we could have the pain erased. If only it were that simple.

A poignant moment of the film for me is when Joel is waiting in the reception at Lacuna, with all the personal effects that remind him of Clementine. These are to be taken off him so he has nothing in his house that will remind him of her. Next to him sits an old lady who has all her dog’s things. She has lost a beloved pet and finds the pain so unbearable she wants the memories erased.

But in the long term is that the right answer? It is a truism that time is a great healer, and eventually you hold on to the good memories and think less of the bad ones. Even the bad ones can be put to good use – sometimes when I’m out running and it gets tough I remember how I was bullied at school because I wasn’t very good at sport. I’m not one to bear a grudge but “I’ll show those ****ers” is usually the thought that spurs me on.

Life is memories. That’s why we all try to record them on film or videotape. Without them we don’t have much. They should be kept and treasured. Always.

Talking of memories, look out for my next entry - Sun 16th October 2005 is a day I'll have exceptionally fond memories of, for a very long time.

Copyright © Jonathan Weedon, October 2005

Sunday, October 02, 2005

Racing and more racing..

How nice it will be having all my weekends free from now on - no more being crossed off people's lists of names to invite to social gatherings (I hope).

However I've no doubt some weekends will still be dull and uneventful - unlike this one (1st/2nd October). On the Saturday I tried my hand (for the first time) at Go-Karting. Thankfully I managed to catch a lift off Phil Cogan - otherwise I'd never have found the place in a million years. It was basically a disused air shelter or something, not signposted at all, on the outskirts of Wroughton. The other great thing about getting a ride with Phil is that whilst I was in fear of my life all the time in the car at least I know what a good driver I am by comparison - sorry Phil!!

And so to the karting - there were about 20 of us taking part, in 2 groups of 10. Most of my buddies from spinning and body pump at the gym, plus the instructors, Alex, Ali and Paul. Nicole, at just 19 the baby in our gang, brought four mates along with her. Nicole - if you're reading this sweetheart, next time bring girls who are cute but haven't got boyfriends and who are crap at karting, ok?? :)

Anyway, before we were let loose we had a 5 minute lecture which was basically all about what the various flags meant if they were waved at us. No use to man nor beast really - what I could have done with was some tips on how to drive those bloody things and how best to take the corners. I was useless at it. For the life of me I couldn't get the hang of how best to control the things and get round the corners (of which there were too many).

But hey, who really cares?? We had a great day out - I've been going to various gyms and exercise classes ever since I left Uni and gave up Karate and I've never met such a good bunch of friends as these guys anywhere else. This year we've been to the cinema, been to parties at each other's houses, been out for meals, had nights out etc etc. Special thanks to Maxine who seems to end up organising most of these.

After the karting we stopped at The Sun at Coate water for liquid refreshment. Unfortunately I was unable to partake of any alcohol as I had a different sort of racing to do in the morning - another 10k run at Cricklade. Still, we all had a good time and I managed to get some good tips on running and training from Gerry, who started running a year ago and this year has managed two marathons.

No company at the Cricklade 10k unfortunately - Anthony was unable to make it on this occasion. Still, it was probably about time I did one on my own, and in the end I wasn't fazed by it. I found the place ok and had a good run. It was a much flatter course than the two I had done previously and while I'm not sure of my exact time I think it was about 55-56 minutes - a personal best for me, but one I hope to improve on considerably.

I let Anthony know about this by text and true to form he congratulated me and reminded me to enjoy a few beers today. At the time of writing I had a couple of beers with my tea (after going to the cinema to see Red Eye - recommended) and plan to have a glass or two of wine before retiring. First day at my new job tomorrow so can't afford to be too hung over.

I've been thinking all day about how I'll feel two weeks from now, when, all being well, I'll have finished my first half marathon (Swindon). As long as I can still walk I'll be going on holiday the next day so I doubt I'll be too worried about the hangover then. To coin a phrase, I dare say I'll be well and truly "freddied" before the night is over.